Friday, February 12, 2010

GAL n guyz: frndz: huhh.....

CAN A GAL and A BOY be frndz...
now datz a question which still hasnt got a satisfactory answer yet...some feel yes n some no....
loads f arguments,fightz n misunderstandingz hv been created by dis statement....i alwayz thot y people r so double minded bout dis issue....itz a simple question wid a much simpler answer: YES....i mean watz d problem f a boy n a gal r frndz.....dey definitely cn.....even i had loads f ma frndz who r guyz....n seriously tellin 4m ma perception....guyz prove 2 b much better frndz dan gals.....
i ws in complete agreement dat a gal n a guy can b frndz...gud frndz...infact best frndz....
but even i m lyk confused bout d same.....n dis is coz i hv came across so many instances...
some f dem are: (all dese r true)
1. a gal had a bf....another guy who used 2 say dat dis gal is her best frnd....fell in luv wid her knwin all bout her n her bf....she tried a lot 2 handle d frndship but guess frndship wsnt left at all.
2. a gal n a guy were 2gether 4m startin f d coll....dey were lyk best buddies...(as dey used 2 say..n oderz used 2 say shit...oderz r sick i knw..)dey used 2 talk on fone...d gal fell in luv wid dat guy....
3. a gal n a guy became frndz....simple frndz...misd callz....msgz....started talkin on fone...shared everythin.....all d past history...likes..dislikes...crushezzz.......everythin....became vry close frndz...fell in luv....
4. a gal n guy frndz...gud frndz...guy fell in luv wid dat gal....
5. a gal n guy lyk best buddies but guy fell in luv wid her...(though he ws comitted...on d verge f breakup)
n d list is endless.......
though i dun completely even disagree.....i stil hv frndz who r guyz...but vry few f dem r lyk rely gud frndz f mine n whom i can trust upon....
actually at present i can recall only 1 such frnd.....i wud rather call him bebo(coz i hv dedicated dis bebo song 2 him...lol..)...he is 1 such guy frnd f mine who is vry close n whom i trust(though we dun talk dat much wid each oder but stil we cme 2 knw if d oder 1 is upset)....n whom i nvr wanna lose in lyf...
but d above cases hv made me 2 think once bout d same.....can a gal n a boy be gud frndz...??

p.s.: i still hv faith.....

12 comments:

vandy said...

bt they can be friendz

sepo said...

phewww..!
apne he story lag rhe thii yaar
marital and extra marital..!!
hmmmm..!

but good one :)

Eksha said...

@vandy: ofcourse honey....dun get personal....m nt against....m jus sayin ki problemz aa jaati hain....

Eksha said...

@sepo: lol...i wun write bout dat or shud i ;)

sepo said...

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shashank said...

nice on Eksha..
Reminiscent of some the old movies of the 70s when there was a furore over
"1 ladka aur 1 ladki kabhi dost nai ho sakte.."
and I lyk ur innovatv styl f writn...
Cheers!

Eksha said...

@shashank: thanx a ton...

surbhit said...
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Eksha said...

@surbhit: yea....dat is wat i wantd 2 convey..thanx 4 helpin..

surbhit said...

when a guy is friends with a girl , usually one of them starts feeling for the other one...
either they turn their relation to bro-sis relation or fall in love
....
so is it like, a gurl and a guy can be comitd or be like bro n sis to each other...???
there are cases where both of them doesn't feel, they are just plain friends, but this case is a very rare case....
cus we r in an age in which we fall for someone....
we love, we breakup, we love again
remember your childhood days
you were just friends with guys and they remained your friends untl they entered their teenage....

it is possible that a guy n gal can be just frnds

@ sneha...that was a good one, marital and extra marital :P
hehe

surbhit said...

:)

kanav said...

hey///......gud 1